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		<title>10 Intriguing Facts About Gambling Kingpin &#8220;Bones&#8221; Remmer</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[An unpleasant, self-described &#8220;big gun,&#8221; Elmer &#8220;Bones&#8221; F. Remmer was &#8220;once one of the San Francisco Bay Area&#8217;s flashiest and most successful gambling czars,&#8221; having owned numerous clubs in which he offered illegal games of chance, noted the Oakland Tribune (June 12, 1963). Before solely working in Northern California, Remmer worked in Northern Nevada for [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_800" style="width: 170px" class="wp-caption alignleft"><img decoding="async" aria-describedby="caption-attachment-800" class="size-full wp-image-800" src="https://gambling-history.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Elmer-Bones-F.-Remmer-96-dpi-3-in.jpg" alt="" width="160" height="288" srcset="https://gambling-history.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Elmer-Bones-F.-Remmer-96-dpi-3-in.jpg 160w, https://gambling-history.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Elmer-Bones-F.-Remmer-96-dpi-3-in-83x150.jpg 83w" sizes="(max-width: 160px) 100vw, 160px" /><p id="caption-attachment-800" class="wp-caption-text">Bones Remmer</p></div>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">An unpleasant, self-described &#8220;big gun,&#8221; <strong>Elmer &#8220;Bones&#8221; F. Remmer</strong> was &#8220;once one of the <strong>San Francisco</strong> <strong>Bay Area&#8217;s</strong> flashiest and most successful gambling czars,&#8221; having owned numerous clubs in which he offered illegal games of chance, noted the <em>Oakland Tribune</em> (June 12, 1963). Before solely working in Northern California, Remmer worked in <strong>Northern Nevada</strong> for the <span style="color: #ffcc00;"><a style="color: #ffcc00;" href="https://gambling-history.com/mob-that-controlled-early-reno-gambling-who-how/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Wingfield syndicate</a></span>, the local Mobsters who then controlled gambling there.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">He likely is most associated with his <strong>Menlo Club</strong> in <strong>San Francisco</strong>, which he operated during the 1940s, and the <strong>Cal-Neva Lodge</strong> at <strong>Lake Tahoe</strong> in <strong>Crystal Bay, Nevada</strong>, which he ran in the 1930s in association with the Wingfield Syndicate. He also owned, during the 1940s, the <strong>21 Club</strong> in <strong>El Cerrito</strong>, the <strong>Oaks Club</strong> in <strong>Emeryville</strong>, and the <strong>110 Eddy</strong> and <strong>B&amp;R Smokeshop</strong> in <strong>San Francisco </strong>— all in <strong>California</strong>.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Here are 10 true tidbits about Remmer:</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>1)</strong> He was shafted by &#8220;It Girl,&#8221; actress <span style="color: #ffcc00;"><a style="color: #ffcc00;" href="https://gambling-history.com/hollywood-sex-symbols-missteps/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer"><strong>Clara Bow</strong></a></span> in September 1930, when she stopped payment on three checks totaling $13,900 (about $198,000 today), which were meant to cover the gambling debt she&#8217;d racked up at the <strong>Cal-Neva Lodge</strong>. (This was even after he&#8217;d gifted her with a bottle of whiskey when she&#8217;d arrived at the property.)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>2)</strong> His wife divorced him the following month on grounds of physical and other cruelty. She claimed she&#8217;d given Remmer $15,000 ($220,000 today) to buy into the Cal-Neva Lodge and quoted him as telling her, &#8220;I got so much publicity out of Clara Bow&#8217;s bum checks that now I know everyone and am hobnobbing with the elite. You&#8217;re no help to me now — just a detriment.&#8221; In the divorce settlement, Remmer had to pay her $15,000 ($270,000 today) in cash and $150 ($2,700 today) per month as alimony.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>3)</strong> Remmer freely paid off state and local politicians to ignore his illegal gambling operations in the Golden State&#8217;s Bay Area. For one, he donated $170,000 ($1.9 million today) in campaign contributions to California Attorney General Frederick &#8220;Fred&#8221; N. Howser.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>4)</strong> He was arrested and charged with intoxication, along with three others, following a drunken fight in the <strong>Encore</strong> bar-restaurant in <strong>West Hollywood</strong> one early morning in December 1950. The other brawlers were <strong>Edmund M. Scribner</strong>, a Bakersfield gambler who&#8217;d worked for Remmer before; <strong>Thomas J. Whalen</strong>, St. Louis gambler, and his companion, actress <strong>Vici Raaf</strong>.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>5)</strong> While in police custody following the melee, he was served by federal agents with a subpoena, which he&#8217;d been dodging, to testify at the upcoming <strong>Kefauver Committee</strong> hearing. During the hearing in 1951, Remmer couldn&#8217;t be found, as he allegedly was waiting it out in Mexico, and never testified. One that threat was gone, he returned to Northern California.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>6)</strong> Remmer went to trial twice, in 1948 and 1949, in San Francisco for operating illegal gambling houses and using business fronts to do so. Both cases ended in hung juries.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>7)</strong> Jury tampering was alleged during Remmer&#8217;s first tax evasion trial in 1951-1952. An outsider, who claimed to know Remmer, approached and suggested to one of the jurors he make a deal with Remmer, insinuating Remmer would pay for a vote in his favor. The juror refused and notified the judge. The United States Federal Bureau of Investigation investigated but concluded nothing untoward had occurred. Ultimately, on appeal, the conviction of Remmer stood, and no charges against the reported interloper were pursued.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>8)</strong> He was found guilty of </span><span style="color: #ffcc00;"><a style="color: #ffcc00;" href="https://gambling-history.com/west-coast-irs-men-bribe-gamblers/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">federal tax evasion</a></span><span style="color: #000000;"> in 1952, but the appeals court ordered a retrial because of the alleged jury tampering. Tried again in 1958, he was found guilty a second time, and the higher court upheld the decision. He was sentenced to a $20,000 fine (about $185,000 today) and five years in prison. He served 2.5 of those, at the <strong>Federal Correctional Institution, Terminal Island</strong> in <strong>San Pedro, California</strong>, getting paroled in 1961.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>9)</strong> He had money problems later in life. Before prison, Remmer paid the requisite pieces of casino income to various mob bigwigs, including <strong>Benjamin &#8220;Bugsy&#8221; Siegel</strong>, New York mobster; <strong>Johnny Rosselli</strong>, member of the Chicago Outfit; and <strong>Jimmy Lanza</strong>, head of the San Francisco crime family. Remmer also freely gave money to various local and state politicians. After paying the Internal Revenue Service his tax arrears of $63,000 (about $530,000 today), finances were tight. After prison, he sold cars, until his death four years later, for his brother William Remmer, who co-owned a lot in Oakland, California.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>10)</strong> Nicknamed &#8220;Bones&#8221; as a joke because of his fluctuating, 225- to 300-pound size, he is said to have struggled, all of his adult life at least, with an endocrine disorder. Remmer passed away after &#8220;undergoing treatment following surgery for a glandular ailment&#8221; at age 65 in 1963 (<em>San Mateo Times</em>, June 12, 1963).</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #ffcc00;"><a style="color: #ffcc00;" href="https://gambling-history.com/sources-10-intriguing-facts-about-gambling-kingpin-bones-remmer-2/" target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferrer">Sources</a></span></p>
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		<title>Shrouded in Mystery: Gambler Tony Cornero’s Fleeting Marriage</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[1941 The brief union between Tony and Dorothy Stralla ended in a suspicious tragedy. Antonio Cornero Stralla was a colorful, law defying, Southern California rumrunner turned gambler. He was involved, most often as the owner/operator, in a string of casino enterprises,  including the: • Meadows (Las Vegas, Nevada) • S.S. Rex (Las Vegas, Nevada) • [&#8230;]]]></description>
										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><u><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="size-full wp-image-1510 alignleft" src="https://gambling-history.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Collage-Cornero-Stralla-and-Friend-Thaxton-B-72-dpi-3.5-in.jpg" alt="" width="252" height="226" srcset="https://gambling-history.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Collage-Cornero-Stralla-and-Friend-Thaxton-B-72-dpi-3.5-in.jpg 252w, https://gambling-history.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/Collage-Cornero-Stralla-and-Friend-Thaxton-B-72-dpi-3.5-in-150x135.jpg 150w" sizes="(max-width: 252px) 100vw, 252px" />1941</u></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The brief union between <strong>Tony and Dorothy Stralla</strong> ended in a suspicious tragedy.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><span style="color: #ffcc00;"><a style="color: #ffcc00;" href="https://gambling-history.com/fate-of-the-s-s-monte-carlo-gambling-ship/"><strong>Antonio Cornero Stralla</strong></a></span> was a colorful, law defying, <strong>Southern California</strong> rumrunner turned gambler. He was involved, most often as the owner/operator, in a string of casino enterprises,  including the:</span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;"><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>• <span style="color: #ffcc00;"><a style="color: #ffcc00;" href="https://gambling-history.com/quick-fact-the-hard-way-or-the-easy-way/">Meadows</a></span></strong> (Las Vegas, Nevada)</span><br />
<span style="color: #000000;"><strong>• S.S. Rex</strong> (Las Vegas, Nevada)</span><br />
<span style="color: #000000;"><strong>• Stardust</strong> (Las Vegas, Nevada)</span><br />
<span style="color: #000000;"><strong><em>• Rex</em></strong> gambling ship (offshore, Santa Monica and Redondo Beach, California)</span><br />
<span style="color: #000000;"><strong><em>• Lux</em></strong> gambling ship (offshore, Long Beach, California)</span><br />
<span style="color: #000000;"><strong>• Montmartre Club</strong> (Havana, Cuba)</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Dorothy Friend Thaxton</strong> was a nightclub singer known as Dorothy Carroll, and, prior to the marriage, Cornero Stralla’s publicist.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">He, at about age 41 (records show various birth years), and she, at 25, tied the knot in <strong>Las Vegas</strong>, <strong>Nevada</strong> at 2 a.m. on Monday, May 5, 1941. He’d been married before, at least once. It’s unknown whether she had been.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Following their nuptials, she lived in his <strong>Beverly Hills</strong> home, and he resided in Havana, where he ran the Montmartre nightclub-casino.</span></p>
<h6><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>The Bloom Is Off The Rose</strong></span></h6>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">About two months later, the couple separated following a heated argument at the Southern California house, to which the police were called and Friend Thaxton was taken to the local emergency room for care.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">“She first said she had swallowed the contents of two bottles of iodine, and later said she had just stained her lips and hands with the brownish liquid,” reported the <em>Los Angeles Times</em> (July 10, 1941).</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">A week after that incident, Cornero Stralla filed for a marriage annulment, claiming Friend Thaxton hadn’t “fulfilled her marital obligations” and had pursued the union with him intending never to do so.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">The <em>Times</em> noted, “‘Admiral’ Tony Cornero’s latest romance has faded — quick than a sucker’s bankroll aboard one of the floating gambling ships that formerly beckoned the unwary along the Southern California coast.”</span></p>
<h6><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>“Cold, Harsh, Devoid Of Affection”</strong></span></h6>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Friend Thaxton responded with a cross-complaint, citing cruelty and desertion and asking for separate maintenance. This is an order requiring a spouse to make support, or maintenance, payments to the other, via a separation agreement. In her filing, Friend Thaxton requested $150 (about $2,500 today) per month, 15 percent of Cornero Stralla’s monthly income of about $1,000 ($17,000 today). She denied her husband’s accusations.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">On the couple’s subsequent court date in late July, Friend Thaxton showed but Cornero Stralla didn’t. He was away on business, his attorney said. Friend Thaxton told the judge that since she and Cornero Stralla had separated, her husband hadn’t supported her, thereby forcing her to pawn her jewelry and borrow money from friends.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">In late July, a judge ordered the gambler to pay the monthly $150 in alimony but only temporarily. Even though the marriage was so short-lived, by California law he had to do so because he’d been the one to initiate the union’s dissolution. Were she to have filed for the annulment instead, he wouldn’t have had to support her.</span></p>
<h6><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Whiplash Of Extremes</strong></span></h6>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">A month later, the two dismissed their respective legal actions, supposedly having reunited.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><em>Had Cornero Stralla coerced or manipulated Friend Thaxton into dropping her alimony request or had she done so willingly?</em></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">A week later, on September 4, the two were in a Las Vegas court, where Friend Thaxton was granted a marriage annulment.</span></p>
<h6><span style="color: #000000;"><strong>Who Was Responsible?</strong></span></h6>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Following the hearing, she was driving herself home to Hollywood, when she got into a serious car accident about 18 miles west of Baker, California. When she’d tried to pass another car along the shoulder, traveling at a high speed, she lost control. Her vehicle skidded about 140 feet, overturned three times and skidded another 150 feet. She was thrown about 70 feet from where the car came to a rest.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">Cornero Stralla had been following her in his car, hoping to overtake her and get her to stop driving, as she’d been drinking and “in no condition to drive,” he told police (<em>Los Angeles Times</em>, Sept. 6, 1941). He claimed she’d exceeded 100 mph at times.</span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;"><em>What really happened on that drive?</em></span></p>
<p><span style="color: #000000;">At 6:15 the next morning, Friend Thaxton died in a doctor’s office from her injuries, which included a skull fracture.</span></p>
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